Kindliche Erfahrungen entscheiden stark in welche Richtung unsere Seelenströme fließen.

Kinder zu erziehen, als ob es kein Morgen gäbe. Kinder zu erziehen, als ob die Welt nur zwischen 4 häuslichen Wenden anfängt und endet.

Kinder brauchen nicht nur Liebe, sondern auch Struktur, Orientierung, Disziplin, Grenzen und Werte, um gesund zu wachsen und zu werden. Wenn das Kind nicht mit Disziplin aufwächst, wenn es mit einer Logik erzogen ist, wonach es tut, was es will, wie es will, wann es will, wo es will, wenn Kinder nichts zu ihren Taten zu verantworten haben, wenn sie nur gelobt werden, egal, was sie getan haben, ob es richtig war oder nicht, wenn alles nur nach ihrer Meinung, nach ihren Wünschen und Bedürfnissen geht, wenn sie mehr Macht bekommen als die Eltern und alles bestimmen nach ihrer Laune, wenn sich alles nur noch um das Kind dreht, wenn sie ohne Leistung alles bekommen, was sie wollen oder nicht brauchen, wenn sie bei allen kleinsten Schmerzen zum Arzt gebracht werden, damit man sieht, ob nichts Schlimmes passiert ist, – oder aber, wenn sie das extreme Gegenteil von allem Obenzitierten erleben-, dann werden sie in Situationen außerhalb der häuslichen Umgebung leiden. Die Welt vor der Haustür wird für sie ein Loch ohne Boden sein und der Abprall auf dem Boden dieser realen und wahren Welt wird hart und sehr schmerzhaft sein und viele «Knochen» werden brechen. Ein sinkflugartiger Sturz, eine Fallschirmerziehung mit schweren Folgen: Sie sind die Fallschirmkinder.

"Heutzutage werden Kinder wie Fallschirmspringer erzogen, wie Menschen, die aus einem Flugzeug hinausgeworfen werden und dann alleine schauen müssen, wo und wie sie auf dem Boden landen und wie sie dann unten mit der Realität klarkommen. Wenn ein Kind gelernt hat, dass es alles auch ohne Mühe und Leistung bekommen kann, dass seine (absichtlichen) Verfehlungen keine Konsequenzen haben, wie soll es in der Arbeitswelt und in dem wahren Leben, weit weg von Mama und Papa, zurechtkommen, wo alles erkämpft und verdient werden muss, wo Fehler bestraft werden und wo ihm Grenzen gezeigt sind? Eine gute Erziehung ist der beste Schutz gegen Burnout und nicht ein guter 'Therapeut'\".

Ich bin der Meinung, dass psychische Verletzungen und Körperverletzung nicht immer nur aktive oder bewusste Handlungen sein müssen, damit sie so eingestuft werden. Manche Erziehungsstile, die Fallschirmerziehung, wie wir im Laufe dieses Buchs lesen werden, ist der psychischen und Körperverletzung absolut gleichzustellen.

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