In einer Partnerschaft Entscheidungen zu treffen, ist selten so einfach, wie es auf den ersten Blick scheint. Du hast es bestimmt schon erlebt: Eine scheinbar kleine Frage – «Was essen wir heute Abend?» – kann plötzlich zu einer hitzigen Diskussion werden. Und bei größeren Themen wie der Planung eines Umzugs, der Kindererziehung oder finanziellen Investitionen wird es oft noch komplizierter. Aber warum ist das eigentlich so?

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Außerdem spielt die Dynamik eurer Beziehung eine große Rolle. Vielleicht habt ihr unterschiedliche Herangehensweisen: Der eine von euch entscheidet lieber spontan, während der andere gründlich über alles nachdenkt. Oder ihr habt in der Vergangenheit negative Erfahrungen gemacht, bei denen Entscheidungen zu Streit geführt haben. Solche Muster können sich festsetzen und die Entscheidungsfindung belasten. Dazu kommt der gesellschaftliche Druck: Viele Paare stehen unter dem Eindruck, immer perfekt abgestimmt handeln zu müssen, was zusätzlichen Stress erzeugt.

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