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Family

Aquarian children are often independent and from an early age may have a rebellious streak. Their parents soon learn that these surprising children tend to do the opposite of what is expected, so reverse psychology may work with them. They don’t tend to thrive in school environments that are overly disciplinarian and traditional, but, if the reasons behind rules and regulations are clearly explained to them, they can be sensible. Children born under this sign often have an insatiable curiosity and need to be allowed to experiment and find things out for themselves. This is the sign of the inventor, after all. They are drawn to art and science in particular. Naturally curious and friendly, these children need to be kept safe by their parents when it comes to interacting with strangers or people they don’t know.

Aquarian parents will dive into parenthood with a sense of adventure, and their approach to raising children is likely to be unconventional and sometimes lacking in discipline. This will work out fine if their child loves the freedom of being different, but not so fine if their child prefers fitting in with the crowd and craves structure to feel secure. It really is important for an Aquarian parent to understand that their children may not have the same viewpoints or approach to life as them.

Career

To be fulfilled in their careers, Aquarians must feel they are being original or inventive in some way. They may even become inventors or entrepreneurs. They can do very well in careers involving communication, such as people management, public relations, journalism, the media, television and radio, and can excel on social media, becoming online influencers. Another field they may be attracted to is technology and they can be brilliant with computers. Drawn to humanitarianism they make fine charity workers, campaigners and even politicians. Above all, their intention is to help human beings progress in some way, so it’s highly likely they will be attracted to science, medicine, technology, anthropology, archaeology, sociology, ecology, forensics and even space research.

“Above all, their intention is to help human beings progress in some way”

Given they have such inquisitive minds and love to reach out of their comfort zone to try new things, they may very well change jobs quite frequently during their lives, often making a dramatic career change later in life.

Health and wellbeing

The average Aquarian—if there is such a person—will thrive best on a diet that is simple, light and nourishing. They should steer clear of fatty and fried foods that will just slow them down mentally and physically, and aim for foods that are as natural as possible. A mainly vegetarian diet rich in fruits, vegetables, oily fish, legumes, nuts and seeds is therefore preferable to a diet rich in animal products and refined, processed food.

Aquarians may feel fitter and more mentally alert when the weather is cooler. They don’t tend to enjoy sunbathing as much as those of other signs. They can suffer from circulation problems and should ensure they get plenty of circulation-boosting exercise, a minimum of 30 minutes a day. Cross-training or creative forms of exercise, such as dancing, will appeal to them more than repetitive exercise. Jogging or brisk walking is highly beneficial, but they should avoid the dullness of the treadmill and head outside to get the energy-boosting benefits of fresh air. Regular stretching before and after exercise is important because Aquarian ankles are vulnerable to injury and they should also make sure they wear supportive footwear.

Aquarians are highly likely to enjoy unusual or eccentric hobbies, from train- and UFO-spotting, to astronomy, to science fiction conventions. They can enjoy team sports, socializing and campaigning for causes they believe in. Mind–body therapies, such as yoga and tai chi, physical therapies such as massage, and even simply thumping a punch bag, can help them unwind when the going gets tough. Although blue is their favored color, wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color red will encourage them to feel less detached and more passionate toward themselves and others.

Born between January 20 and 31

All Aquarians love surprises, but those born between these dates positively thrive on them. They can have stable home or work situations and can be loyal and self-disciplined, but every now and again expect them to shake things up and make everybody rethink their assumptions.

Born between February 1 and 10

Aquarians born between these dates find it tough to maintain relationships with people who are not willing to experiment and evolve in the same way that they do. These people just love to constantly reinvent as a way to motivate themselves and others to change for the better.

Born between February 11 and 18

Aquarians born between these dates are sensitive deep down, but they can appear dreamy, aloof and detached at times. They prefer to mix with people who are as original and as visionary in their approach to life as they are. Unconventional and innovative people, their lives will involve many twists and turns.

Life lessons

Aquarius is perhaps the most forward-thinking and future-orientated sign of the zodiac. Progressive and unconventional, Aquarians are likely to challenge traditional thinking at every opportunity, and have the ability to initiate positive change in the world and ease the suffering of the underprivileged. They need to ensure that their passion for progress does not develop into fanaticism. Although they come across as confident and sociable, emotional intimacy frightens them as they fear it will limit their individuality. Their natural ability to detach can come across as cold, but it often masks lack of self-belief. They try to find a sense of identity in being different, though this approach can only work if eccentricity is an expression of their true identity, rather than a false self they have taken on. They need to understand what it is within them that drives them to always be the square peg in a round hole. Only when they know that, can they establish a genuine identity for themselves. They also need to understand that oneness or agreement does not always diminish their position, it can enhance it.

Aquarians are ahead of their time and always looking to the future for another challenge. This makes them true visionaries, but it also makes them restless, with a tendency to push too hard to make things happen. They often don’t know how to relax, let go and savor the present moment, and so they miss out on the inner peace that living mindfully in the now can give them.

Aquarians can truly inspire other Aquarians to visionary heights, but they can also help them understand how they can impact others in a positive or negative way. The other signs of the zodiac can also teach Aquarians valuable life lessons. Geminis and Leos mirror their love for adventure, with Geminis encouraging them to be more analytical and Leos inspiring them to have more fun. Taureans and Capricorns can teach them to value the importance of rules and traditions. Virgos can teach them self-discipline, Librans the value of agreeing to disagree, Cancerians and Pisceans the joys of empathy and heartfelt compassion. Sagittarians can help them focus their original ideas, while Scorpios can teach them not to fear getting to know themselves and others intimately. Arians can show them how energizing time alone can be, as well as the importance of separating rebellion for its own sake from rebellion for a just cause.

Chinese astrology counterpart: The Tiger

Tigers are the courageous adventurers and bold unpredictable animals of the Chinese zodiac. They absolutely love to be challenged and to take risks, so it is easy to see why they correspond with the rebellious instinct of their counterpart, Aquarius. They are extremely friendly and often charismatic, but never ever forget they also have very sharp jaws and claws. They can be irritable, opiniated, arrogant, detached and uncompromising.

Being part of a team or group is something they enjoy, but they are loners at heart, who prefer to hunt alone. They must also feel free to express their originality at all times. Blending in with the crowd is something they rarely, if ever, do. Emotional intimacy is an issue for them and it takes them a long time to really trust someone with their heart. Born leaders who are addicted to constant change and transformation, these people are often progressive innovators searching for new ways to do things. They find contentment only when they are forging their own path and making progress doing things their way, however weird or eccentric that way may be.

Note: Aquarians have an affinity with Tiger-sign characteristics, but be sure to check which Chinese sign corresponds to your year of birth, and to read about the characteristics associated with it, too.

20 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Ad-libber

“I adapt and grow stronger”

The life lesson: is overcoming lack of self-belief.

The way forward: is to stop the comparison game and remind yourself that you are utterly unique and irreplaceable.

Luck maker: Believe you deserve the best, as positivity about yourself will help attract good things.

January 20 people are expressive and charming improvisers. They may not always be sure where they are going, but they also have no doubt that they will get somewhere. They have a remarkable ability to learn, adapt and constantly improve their skills, and these qualities help them climb the ladder of success, sometimes to the very top. Although they can occasionally appear superficial and flaky—and their flexibility occasionally runs the risk of tipping over into dishonesty and lack of self-discipline —there is always method to their madness. Their flexible and fun but responsible style ensures that they can overcome almost any setback with their sparkling sense of humor intact.

Born healers, those born on this day genuinely care about the wellbeing of others, especially those who are underdogs, so any career that involves dealing with the public appeals. They can achieve much in the world of medicine and science and also make great teachers, counselors and advisors. Their communication and creative skills may draw them to diplomacy, politics, writing, music, the media, blogging, entertainment, and they can thrive in business and as entrepreneurs. Their flexible approach to life extends to their health, so it is important that they don’t ignore warning signs of poor health. For self-care, at the end of each day, record in a journal things that you are grateful for about yourself or things you did today that you are proud of. At the start of each day list the tasks you want to complete and enjoy ticking them off as the day progresses.

These people can become insecure when deeply involved with someone special and need to apply the same go-with-the-flow approach to life to their close relationships. Although they appear tough, the respect of others is extremely important to them, sometimes too much so. They need to learn to trust their own judgment more, as they are usually right. Fortunately, around the age of 30, they reach a powerful turning point that emphasizes the need for working with their gut instinct, and their intuition grows stronger and stronger with age. Once they find a direction and the sense of self-worth essential to their growth, their destiny is to show others that adaptability is a strength, not a weakness, and a truly healing way to progress and create harmony in the world.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: Judgment, 2, 3, Saturday, Monday, blue, silver

Born today: Buzz Aldrin (astronaut); Federico Fellini (director); Bill Maher (comedian); Gary Barlow (singer)

Potential: Intuitive, resilient

Dark side: Insecure, superficial

21 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Trendsetter

“I see no limitations”

The life lesson: is to distinguish between fear and intuition.

The way forward: is to understand that intuition is not harshly self-critical, but a gentle caring voice.

Luck maker: Connect with your feelings and listen to your heart before you make a decision.

People born on January 21 are charismatic trailblazers. Boldly original and innovative, others tend to want to follow them and listen to their opinions. They seem to be able to get along with just about anyone and when this is combined with their ambition and ability to learn from their mistakes rather than be derailed by them, they have the perfect recipe for success. Freedom of expression is vital for people born on this day. They don’t like to be tied down by rules and rarely relish the role of leader because they lack the ruthlessness to impose their will on others. They prefer to be the planners and visionaries, but it is up to others to see things through to the end.

Born artists and free spirits, these people’s combination of innovation and sensitivity gives them great potential in the arts, but they will excel in any profession that values their talent for generating ideas, such as design, advertising, the media, technology, commerce, business and all forms of social media. They may also be drawn to charity work, politics, the law and social reform, as they have a desire to help those who are less fortunate than themselves. Innovative, they are likely to create their own successful self-care plan and, as long as they don’t go to extremes, others often look to them for lifestyle advice. For self-care, set aside some time when you can be completely alone and use that time to reflect and recharge.

These people don’t like to be tied down and will experiment in relationships until they find someone who shares their love of variety. They have a tremendous need to be liked, and this can lead to fast talking, nervousness and indecision. It is essential for them to acknowledge the importance of thinking before they speak and to be less swayed by others’ criticism. Fortunately, a profound turning point often occurs before their thirtieth birthday, when their sense of self finally matures. Once they have learned to trust their own instincts, and the importance of discipline and staying the course, their destiny is to break boundaries and help improve and fulfill the lives of others by setting new heights for them to aspire to.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The World, 3, 4, Saturday, Thursday, blue, purple

Born today: Christian Dior (fashion designer); Jack Nicklaus (golfer); Placido Domingo (singer)

Potential: Inventive, optimistic

Dark side: Nervous, chaotic

22 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Visionary

“I am bold, brave and beautiful”

The life lesson: is the inability to commit to a person or project.

The way forward: is to find out what is holding you back. If it is fear, you need to be the bold person you know you are deep down and take the risk.

Luck maker: Learn to handle your impatience, because impatience repels good fortune.

January 22-born are unconventional visionaries and often have an electrifying energy. They don’t just break the rules; they destroy them and make new ones. Their imaginative powers are often so advanced that the world isn’t ready for them. This can create a sense of frustration, but if they direct their energy constructively, the world will eventually notice. Their biggest hates are boredom and routine. They have the ability to be extraordinarily successful in whatever they choose, but they do need to learn the importance of patience and discipline if they are to find stability and satisfaction. If people born on this day don’t understand or can’t see their way ahead, they are likely to lose their temper, with explosive results.

Born travelers, they don’t just like variety; it is their life force and they thrive in any career that offers them fast-paced change, plenty of challenge and no set routine. They make superb pilots, airline personnel, travel guides, journalists, chefs, critics, actors and online influencers. Because they live their lives in the fast lane, they need to eat regular meals and snacks to keep their energy levels constant. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the colors blue and green will encourage them to exercise healthy moderation in all things. For self-care, perform a routine task, such as brushing your teeth, mindfully. Focus all your attention on that task and, if your attention wanders, bring it back to the task.

Relationships can feel restrictive for people born on this day and they need someone who shares their sense of adventure. Their impulsive approach earns them critics and has its dangers. Their lives would be easier if they learned to appreciate the value of differing opinions. By the age of 29 they typically begin to develop a sense of self-discipline, and this gradual shift toward self-empowerment is a feature for the rest of their lives. Once they learn to control their tendency to flip-flop from one project or relationship to the next and value the importance of patience and introspection, their destiny is to amaze those around them, whatever they choose to do.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Fool, 4, 5, Saturday, Sunday, sky blue, silver

Born today: Lord Byron (poet); Francis Bacon (statesman); John Hurt (actor)

Potential: Imaginative, ground-breaking

Dark side: Hasty, explosive

23 JANUARY

The Birthday of the Dissenter

“I follow my own path”

The life lesson: is to stop feeling insecure about yourself.

The way forward: is to nurture or parent yourself by making sure that every word or action is one that supports and encourages you.

Luck maker: Accept help and listen to advice from others.

People born on January 23 dislike taking orders or even advice from other people and prefer to live according to their own rules, devoting themselves to their own ideals. Although this approach has its risks, more often than not their courageous and buoyant character sees them making, rather than obeying, the rules. Rarely motivated by financial reward alone, they are idealistic. This quality, along with their original thinking and distinctive style, makes them stand out from the crowd in a positive way. They truly are inspirational figures. Despite their can-do attitude and charisma, people born on this day never feel quite worthy of the admiration they attract. Although this adds to their charm, it can sometimes hold them back, but when they are able to believe in themselves, there is nothing to stop them achieving their own dreams.

Born academics, they are drawn to intellectual pursuits and thrive in student and academic settings. As they are analytical, they can make great scientists and mathematicians. Their more practical side may draw them to technology, finance and business, but their rebellious nature may draw them to entrepreneurship and self-employment. Whatever career they choose, originality will lead the way. They need to avoid becoming obsessive about their health and to seek advice from experts rather than self-diagnose. For self-care, visualize your life as a work of art—mold it in beautiful and loving detail in your mind’s eye. Make it a masterpiece and then express that inspiration in your daily life.

These people are cerebral and this can make them feel emotionally isolated. It is important for them to connect to their feelings and to their bodies, and for their hearts and minds to work in harmony. Typically, around the age of 28 they become more emotionally mature and responsive in relationships, and less distant, and this positive trend continues with age. If they can balance their rebellious streak with practicality, and make sure their fascination with the abstract does not take precedence over their relationships, their destiny is not just to become rebels with an important cause but to encourage others to see things they normally take for granted in an extraordinary new light.

Tarot card, lucky numbers, days, colors: The Hierophant, 5, 6, Saturday, Wednesday, aquamarine, green

Born today: John Hancock (statesman); Édouard Manet (painter); Gertrude B. Elion (chemist)

Potential: Principled, courageous

Dark side: Troubled, isolated