"Das Buch als Fundgrube zu bezeichnen wäre Untertreibung – es ist eher einem reichhaltigen Fundus vergleichbar. Über Jahre hinaus wird es ein Standardwerk systemischer Arbeit mit Paaren bleiben, und es wird dafür sorgen, dass die systemische Therapie ein ernstzunehmender Dialogpartner im Gespräch mit anderen Richtungen bleibt.\" Arist von Schlippe «Dieses durch und durch exakt strukturierte Lehrbuch für die systemische Arbeit mit Paaren verbindet sehr hilfreich alltags- und praxisnahe Gesichtspunkte mit wissenschaftlichen Aspekten. Die Bandbreite der behandelten Themen ist beeindruckend. Ein Lehrbuch, das überaus gewinnbringend ist: sowohl für die theoretische Auseinandersetzung als auch für die praktische Umsetzung.»

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Paarberatung stellt für Therapeuten vor allem deshalb eine besondere Herausforderung dar, weil es den Partnern meist schwer fällt, jahrelang eingeübte Muster durch neue zu ersetzen. Solche Muster prägen auch das Gespräch mit Beratenden: Die schnellen Wechsel von Themen und Ebenen oder die Konkurrenz um Anteile an Redezeit führen dazu, dass es oft nur unter hohem Strukturierungsaufwand möglich ist, den Therapieprozess zu steuern.

Dieses Lehrbuch unterstützt Berater und Therapeuten dabei, sich im Beratungsprozess zurechtzufinden, indem es eine große Bandbreite an Betrachtungsweisen – es werden acht Orientierungsebenen unterschieden – und Strukturierungsmöglichkeiten bietet. Es ermutigt dazu, alles zu kombinieren, was funktioniert: Methoden und Techniken aus zahlreichen Therapieschulen sowie aus der Mediation. Der Aufbau des Praxisteiles entspricht der Professionalisierung von Beratern: Beratungshaltung, Beratungsoptik, beraterisches Handeln und Qualitätssicherung.

Theoretisch orientiert sich Thomas Hess an der wieder entdeckten «Psychologie der persönlichen Konstrukte» von G. A. Kelly. Seine Erfahrungen sammelte er als Dozent und Supervisor am IEF (ehemals: Institut für Ehe und Familie) in Zürich. Der Autor: Thomas Hess, Dr. med., Kinder- und Jugendpsychiater, Paar- und Familientherapeut, Supervisor, Organisationsberater, Mediator und Klärungshelfer; nach Tätigkeit als Chefarzt einer Kinder- und Jugendpsychiatrischen Ambulanz 1993–1999 Leiter des IEF (Institut für Ehe und Familie, seit 1999: Institut für systemische Entwicklung und Fortbildung) in Zürich. Seither in freier Praxis und als Trainer in Weiterbildungen für Systemtherapie mit dem Schwerpunkt Patchworkfamilien tätig.

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