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讓對方愛上你，你需要注意第一印象，在外在形象、說話做事、表達方式以及心理狀態等方面留下好的印象；採取有效、適當的追求計畫，拉近彼此的距離，贏得對方的好感；學會操控語言和情感，使得愛情走向更為積極、正面的方向，進而增加愛情的新鮮度、保質期和忠誠度。學會操控語言和情感，使得愛情走向更為積極、正面的方向，進而增加愛情的新鮮度、保質期和忠誠度。

Author Biography：

張小英，百萬粉絲情感博主，資深情感諮詢師，身心靈成長作家，女性創業導師，三生有幸空間創始人，女性魅力演說導師，\"三生有幸\"幸福理論體系創始人。

2013年開始，辭去高薪的工作，專心研修婚姻情感家庭以及各類心靈成長的課題；2015年，正式成為一名情感授課導師，受邀到全國各地巡迴演講授課；2018年，擔任某教育培訓機構首席情感導師；2019年，連續出版情感類書籍3本；2020年，進駐抖音自媒體平臺，成為抖音官方簽約情感導師，短短3個月，粉絲量突破一百萬，情感直播節目累計觀看人數達8000萬人次。

主要課程有：《家庭幸福力》《魅力女性》《女力時代》《女性的自我修煉》《情感對話》，曾出版《愛情需要儀式感》《女性的情感世界》《與女人對話》等暢銷書籍。

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«如何讓你愛的人也愛上你：愛與尊重的語言», 張小英 benzeri kitaplar