Getting the Woman of Your Dreams

© Nishant Baxi, 2020

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Nishant Baxi

Getting the women of your dreams

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Getting the Woman of Your Dreams

Nishant Baxi

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Table of Contents

GETTING THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS

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A F EMALE A TTRACTION H ANDBOOK FOR S HY M EN 1

INTRODUCTION

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CHAPTER 1

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A TTRACTING W OMEN 5

Getting Started

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Women 101

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Look at Yourself – Know Your Attributes

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Are You Your Own Best Friend or Enemy?

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Positive Reconstruction of Negative Self-Talk

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CHAPTER 2

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T IPS FOR S UCCESS W HEN M EETING W OMEN 13

Building Your Self Confidence

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Focus on Positive Affirmations

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Creating Useful Positive Affirmations

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Positive Affirmations: What They Are & What They Aren’t

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What You Say & How You Say It

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Step I: The Greeting

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Step II: The Conversation

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Step III: Take Action

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Suggested Tips for Making this Easier

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CHAPTER 3

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B ODY L ANGUAGE: H OW

TO T ELL I F S HE’ S I NTERESTED 27

Why is Body Language Important

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It’s

in the Eyes

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Her Hands (and Feet!) are Telling you Something

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What’s the Posture?

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Conclusion

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Legal Notice

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Introduction

There is a ton of information available online regarding dating. This does not mean that all guides and books are created equally. Each book has a different

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approach about how to best attract members of the opposite sex. They cover everything from what to wear, to how to talk, to specific pick-up lines to use. Many are borderline offensive, are more likely get you slapped than a date with a woman.

Regardless of what spin these online manuals and guides take, they usually have one thing in common. They typically spend a lot of time on self-confidence. Believing in your self is essential to attracting a woman. How can you get someone else to think you’re great, if you don’t think you’re great?

The cheesy pick-up lines, hidden tricks, and special secrets that many guides promise usually don’t work. Without the self-confidence to look a woman in the eyes and communicate with her, you won’t have much success in the dating department.

Some men get really stressed out about picking up a woman, and anxiety about it is common and normal. However, sometimes it goes a step further to the point of a panic attack. Do you have any of the following symptoms of a panic disorder?

Rapid heartbeat

Nausea

Stammering when talking

Fear of rejection

Clammy hands

Inability to maintain a logical dialogue

Flustered feeling

Going blank

Shakiness

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If you have any of the aforementioned symptoms, you can benefit from this book. Not only will we cover the best ways to build up your dating self-confidence, but you will also learn the key tips to success with women. You’ll also learn about the type of man that attracts women mentally, no matter what you look like.

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Chapter 1

Attracting Women

Getting Started

Successful dating techniques are usually not something you are just born knowing. It takes work to be able to pick up the woman of your dreams. So you carefully pay attention to what works and what doesn’t, tweaking your own style and technique until you find a method that works best for you. You see what other people do and mimic that which feels most natural. You get feedback from women – both solicited and unsolicited – about what you are doing right and wrong.

All of these learning techniques are helpful and essential to your success. However, if you are still experiencing difficulty with women, this guide will help you succeed in dating, overcome your shyness, and gain the lifestyle that you long for.

Women 101

What makes a woman tick? You’ve probably asked yourself this a hundred times.

The fact is that women and men are essentially the same, with a few exceptions.

First, think about your non-romantic female relationships. Do you have female friends and acquaintances? What do you talk about? How to you interact? The women you are trying to date are probably fundamentally very similar to these women. For example, do you have a great friendship with a woman? What parts of that can you pull from to help you with meeting someone new?

Men and women have many of the same desired outcomes from dating. Many are looking for someone who is fun and who they enjoy spending time with. They

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are looking for a friend that they can trust, and who will eventually fall in love with them. They are looking for a romantic partner. Women want the dream man that will take care of them emotionally, mentally, and physically. More than likely, you are looking for some variation of this too.

Women are just as nervous as you are about meeting someone new. They get the same anxiety and stress, and when you approach a woman, she is most likely feeling the same jitters and butterflies that you are. Keep that in mind to help quell your fears.

Women, just like men, have varying opinions about what makes someone attractive physically and mentally. Also just like men, for some women looks are more important than others. And every woman thinks different men are attractive. For many women, appearance is not a major factor in dating a man. Many women find it is most important to be romantically involved with a good man who is good to her. Someone that can make her laugh, hold an interesting conversation, and make life more fun and interesting. With this in mind, you’ll need to take a close look at yourself, complete the worksheets, and focus on your top attributes when trying to attract a woman.

When you are around single women, you shouldn’t worry that you will be shot down if you approach them. Most women are reasonable and normal, and a simple friendly conversation will not end negatively. Women like positive, non-creepy attention from men, and many dress up to boost their self confidence in the dating arena.

Women will tell you if they are not interested. You shouldn’t feel nervous about approaching an attractive woman and striking up a conversation. If she’s taken or not interested, she’ll simply say so. No harm done. It’s best to develop the attitude that taking small risks will have a big payoff. If you don’t try you will never know. And what have you got to lose?

After seeing these common sense facts about women in print, it hopefully helps you realize that women are normal human beings that have many of the same

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stresses and excitement about meeting you as you do with them. Female behavior is typically predictable and communication helps to ensure that you are both on the same page. Women aren’t out to embarrass you. Once you realize that women are the same as you, you’ll be able to easily approach any woman in a relaxed manner just as casually as a chat with your buddy about the game.

Look at Yourself – Know Your Attributes

Before you get started, it’s a good idea to take an honest look at yourself. What are your best selling points? Focus on the positive. Are you funny? Do you have an analytical mind? Are you quick-witted? Use the Appendix I worksheet to put your key selling points down on paper. You will use this in other developmental activities so keep it handy and add to it regularly.